Written by Mary Shaw

Solicitor/Mediator at David Gray Solicitors LLP

Mary has practised as a Family Lawyer since 1984. She is accredited by Resolution as a specialist lawyer in the areas of Advanced Financial Provision, Private Children Law and Domestic Abuse. She has been a member of the Children Panel since 1993.

Mary is a long-term supporter of OnlyMums & OnlyDads.

KISS – the phrase “Keep It Simple Stupid”, whilst rather forthright, can be a reminder not to overthink some things when getting divorced: for example, painstakingly trying to value all of your house contents is probably a waste of time.

But not so for pensions – because pensions are complex and can be a much more valuable asset than you may realise. Only married people and civil partners can share their pensions on dissolution of their relationship. The Court is tasked with considering whether the pension in those circumstances should be shared.

Pensions are complex and can be a much more valuable asset than you may realise.

If you are divorcing or contemplating divorce then this is what you need to know:-

Two of the most important decisions that you will make about your divorce will be about timing and process: pushing on with a divorce when your spouse is reeling from the news could backfire very badly; and deciding how to sort your separation/divorce business out can be a critical decision determining what state your relationship with your ex will be in at the end. This is key if you have children or if you have warm relationships with your in-laws. Talking-round-a-table processes such as mediation and collaborative practice lend themselves very well to discussing how to sort out pensions.

Before you make any decisions about whether you want to share or have a share of a pension it is important to get its “cash equivalent value”.

Your spouse or civil partner’s pension is likely to be a matrimonial asset which can be shared. Clients will often say “He (or she) worked for it and earned it and I don’t want any of it”. The Court looks at contributions and, whilst your partner was earning their pension you were quite possibly bringing income into the relationship or staying at home keeping house and raising children: in other words your marriage was a joint effort.

Before you make any decisions about whether you want to share or have a share of a pension it is important to get its “cash equivalent value”. This is easily obtained and you are entitled to a minimum of one a year at no cost to you (Providing the pension is not in payment; if it is in payment you may pay a fee for the CEV).

The cash equivalent value of a pension is not a pound for pound accurate measure of the pension’s value – this is where things get complex and “apples and pears” becomes a good way of explaining why: a personal pension could be considered an “apple” whilst many occupational pensions (in particular public sector and “uniformed” pensions) are “pears”. This is because £10,000 of capital value of a police pension will buy you a whole lot more than £10,000 of a personal pension with, say, Scottish Widows or Standard Life. If there is a choice of pensions to share, and you share the wrong one, both parties may end up worse off than if the right pension were shared.

If you and your partner want to come to an arrangement where one of you keeps their entire pension and the other one gets more of the savings or the house – a pound of pension cannot be treated like a pound of savings or a pound of equity in your home so understanding the “offset” value of your pension will be important. This is a highly technical area

The particular rules of different schemes can inform how you should share pensions to both get maximum income from them.

So doing a quick calculation on the back of an envelope risks you losing out on income for the rest of your life at a time in your life when you could need it most – unless you can successfully sue your solicitor for negligence because they did the calculation on the back of the envelope.

Mary Shaw is a solicitor and mediator who advises on pensions as part of divorce and works with couples in mediation and collaborative practice who are sharing their pensions.


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